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what is L0vE?

A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, "What does love mean?" The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:



"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all even when his hands got arthritis, too. That's Love. Rebecca - age 8

When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth." Billy - age 4

"Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other." Karl - age 5

"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French Fries without making them give you any of theirs." Chrissy - age 6

"Love is what makes you smile when you're tired." Terri - age 4

"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK." Danny - age 7

"Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss" Emily - age 8

"Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen." Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)

"If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate." Nikka - age 6

"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it
everyday." Noelle - age 7

"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well." Tommy - age 6

"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore." Cindy - age 8

"My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night." Clare - age 6

"Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken." Elaine-age 5

"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford." Chris - age 7

"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day." Mary Ann - age 4

"I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old
clothes and has to go out and buy new ones." Lauren - age 4

"When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you" Karen - age 7

"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross." Mark - age 6

"You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget," Jessica - age 8

so what does love means to you?

For me right now, I think love is when I want the one I care to be happy. It doesn't matter if I need to sacrifice for his/ her happiness.

and one more thing that I understand about love is "If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours. If it does not come back, it was never meant to be. " but it just really hard to accept it, when the One you love. Never loves you.

d justice system...

Restorative justice is an approach to justice that focuses on the needs of victims and offenders, instead of satisfying abstract legal principles or punishing the offender. Victims take an active role in the process, while offenders are encouraged to take responsibility for their actions, "to repair the harm they've done—by apologizing, returning stolen money, or community service". It is based on a theory of justice that considers crime and wrongdoing to be an offense against an individual or community rather than the state. It focuses less on punishment and more to repair the damage and ensure avoidance in future.

Retributive justice is a theory of justice that considers that punishment, if proportionate, is a morally acceptable response to crime, with an eye to the satisfaction and psychological benefits it can bestow to the aggrieved party, its intimates and society. "Let the punishment fit the crime" is the principle that the severity of penalty for a misdeed or wrongdoing should be reasonable and proportionate to the severity of the infraction.

D attraction principle checklist*

Here I wanna share the principle that should be followed by any girls to keep warm their relationship.

1) when he doesn't give time, he get no DATE.

-well a girl shouldn't be waiting for a guy to confirm their date. That will obviously keeping girls at a bay. Stop letting him disappoint you. Insist him to confirm any date one day earlier. No more last minute plan, that will cost you to cancel other plans. well I bet you don't like it to be that way. So this is the way, when he insist to confirmed the time later, just let him know that you might be not available later.

2) when he starts getting little distance from you, u should ALTER the routine

-if you date on weekend, maybe can change to weekdays. or when u are married, maybe u could spend your weekend to see friends or family. This will makes him missing you and when u come back, u will get him the you want.

~time to sleep~

Baby baby ohh~ hihi nakal erk

hihi my sis kate x suke panggil BF baby, or husband pgil baby..x sesuai. coz lelaki, a guy kalu pgil baby cam lemau jer..x nampak kegagahan, ketegasan nyer. well, sy x kesah. tapi macam nak kesah gak. hehe coz kadang2x rase cam nak manjekan dia. so, mungkin kadang2x okay jugak kot.

smalam time menduakan si dia, bley plak dia mesej. huhu naseb bek dia call time dah selepas sesi mencuranginya..jgn la kasi kantoi. terpakse mem'make Up ' story bila dia cuba menyoal selidik diriku. mungkin salahku, tapi jgn salahkan ku pleasse.

sikit cuak bile kena interrogate. nasib bek lie detector bisa kupatahkan keberkesanannyer. jahat lah aku ni. sory bby. nak wat cane dia buzy sgt. Ingat dah lupekat kite nih. ngeee...

akhir kate, hopefully aku dpt jadi insan yg setia, x nakal2x lagi.

THe THruth~ the beginning

Usually when u start a relationship with a guy, they might start saying sweet stuff. They may give compliment about you appearance and saying how much they like you.like "you look pretty, your eyes are so mesmerize".

So do you really find it's so sweet,when a guy says things like ‘I’ve never liked a girl so much after only a few dates’ or he texts you saying he misses you. JUST SO YOU KNOW here is the reality, when you barely know each other, guys doesn’t really mean it. Yes, he feels something, but it is not “missing you” that he’s feeling. He just want to know how you react on that, do u really likes him. His main GOAL is to see how much do you INTERESTED.

If you say something like ‘oh my god really? I really like you too!’ and get all excited, then he knows you’re really into him.

BUT If you get really freaked-out and look at him like he’s a stalker, he’ll know that he’s gonna have to work a little harder to win you over.

In the beginning, the guy really just wants to make you like him. So him texting you sweet things and saying all that mushy stuff and being really attentive is just his way of hooking you in and it’s not really him expressing his feelings.

am scared~

In a relationship, there should be the giver and recipient. But it should be mutualism. relationship that could be enjoyed by both sides, the symbiosis.
....When I love the person in my relationship, I never have the intention to hurt them. I don't dare to makes they feel terrible. But in this ONE, I just cannot tolerate this one wrong treatment he has given to me. just not anymore. I must stop this.

I seriously can't accept it when he is just ignored my message without feeling guilty. I was trying to just forget it when he did that. But not anymore. I think it is possible that he never realise that I was being hurtful by his 'silent treatment'. So, Here I am taking the best solution that I can think. I had to tell him how I hate it. I hope he could accept and understand what I was trying to tell him. In the mean time, I felt guilty of doing this. HUUh I know it is hard for me to tell the truth that could makes him feel annoyed with me. I was not trying to sabotaging or controlling his life. I am just fighting to save our relationship. Hopefully he will understand. and one more thing I am scared of losing him. Thats the truth.

huuh I think Its really hard to keep a real relationship, especially for myself whom has not much experience. well what I have figured is that sometimes we just need to fight for our right. No mercy..yeahh



believe me please >0<